Building, Bombing, or Blowing Off: Living Out God’s Purpose to Love Others

Summary

Life’s true purpose is loving God and others, which produces the abundant life Jesus promised. Earthly success cannot satisfy us, but relational love reveals spiritual maturity. Believers often build, bomb, or blow off others through words and actions. Jesus modeled perfect, sacrificial love and calls His followers to represent Him daily. Through the Holy Spirit, Christians are empowered to deny themselves, follow Christ, and consistently build others up rather than harm or ignore them.

Living Out God's Purpose

The purpose of life is to love the LORD and others with the resources God entrusts to us. The by-product of such a life is the top-shelf, blue ribbon, heart-thrilling, abundant life Jesus came to give us (John 10:10). Nothing compares to it.

Why Earthly Success Never Satisfies

Sky-scraping earthly achievements cannot fulfill us. Neither can riches, fame, or power. Pursuing those illusions, like an addict lusting for the next heroin fix, never satisfies us. Fulfilling God’s purpose for our lives does.

How We Treat Others Reveals Our Spiritual Health

How much we love God and others foreshadows how much of Jesus’ joy we experience (John 15:11). We can describe our relationships with others as building, bombing, or blowing off.

On some days, we perform all three with the same person! We lose our patience, temper, and composure, and the bomb doors open.

The Power of Words and Actions

We say and do hurtful things we later regret. “With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be” (James 3:9-10 NIV).

Furthermore, we behave as though some people were beneath us. Perhaps we do not want to get involved in their messy current problems. That would cost us resources we do not want to sacrifice. We blow them off. We ignore them. Our light does not shine (Matthew 5:16).

Representing Jesus in Everyday Relationships

We do not behave as Jesus would in the same situations. And (attention, believers!), we are in those situations to live for and represent Jesus (2 Corinthians 5:15)! He told us to love one another as I have loved you.

Yet, we still bomb people or blow them off instead of building them up. That is living like those who profess no religion (1 Corinthians 3:3). Ouch! I have been there and done that!

Jesus as the Perfect Model of Love

Jesus’ dying to pay the penalty for our sins (Romans 5:8) showed us the highest form of loving others (John 15:13). His entire earthly life demonstrated how to love.

He was a sparkling clean vessel God the Father used to pour out His love. Jesus unconditionally committed Himself to build up and bless imperfect people through the enabling power of the Holy Spirit (Matthew 12:28; Luke 4:1, 14, 18; Luke 10:21; Acts 1:2; Acts 10:38).

Our Assignment: Build One Another Up

That was His assignment, and He executed it flawlessly (John 8:29). We have the same assignment. “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up…” (1 Thessalonians 5:11 NIV).

We can do it through the power of that same Holy Spirit as we deny ourselves, take up our cross, and follow Jesus (Luke 9:23). Like the Wall Street financial market report, may our Christian relationship report daily reflect that building is hitting a record high while bombing and blowing are at record lows! See additional free spiritual growth resources for Christians.   #freediscipleshipresources #freeevangelismresources #freechristianleadershipresources

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